Support For Partners

When a woman is diagnosed with breast cancer, her partner can be left stuck on the sideline, feeling helpless. It's recognised that partners face their own, often difficult journey.

Here are some resources for partners of people with breast cancer:

Read the book  'She's Got Breast Cancer'  -  This book for men has been  compiled by journalist Peter Calder and features interviews with 18 Kiwi men whose wives, partners, or in one case mother, have been diagnosed with breast cancer. She's Got Breast Cancer is a frank, humorous and sometimes painfully honest record of the trials and triumphs men encounter as they walk alongside the women they love. Email to order your free paperback (mailed within NZ) or e-book (EPUB and .MOBI/Kindle formats

NZBCF advice line:  0800 BC NURSE (0800 22 68 773)  -  Your call will be answered by a Specialist breast nurse who can answer your questions and provide support. 

Cancer Society of New Zealand - Phone 0800 CANCER or 0800 226 237 

They have a range of leaflets and information about maintaining family relationships through cancer. Cancer Chat NZ is the Cancer Society's online forum for people touched by cancer - There is a specific forum for carers and family.

Breast Cancer Network of Australia (BCNA) – They have an online community for partners to share their experiences.

Cancer Australia – Download podcasts for men whose partners have early breast cancer or advanced breast cancer:

UC San Diego - Moores Cancer Centre: 25 tips for caregivers


Susan G. Komen for the Cure Co-survivor program -  "Co-survivors” are family members, spouses or partners, friends, health care providers or colleagues. This site provides fact sheets, videos, supportive publications for family and friends.

For same sex partners - 

Mamazon Club - contact

Breast Cancer Network Australia - Information for same sex partners

Breast Cancer Discussion Boards - Forum for LGBT with breast cancer